wishhh Profile Information

I am honest and very sad; I need help
Age 55 From Hillsdale, New Jersey - Online - 2 weeks ago
Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
I Would Describe Myself As  
I have always thought of myself as a strong and independent person, but the last months have changed my opinion...my Mama had a stroke in Sept. and I've realized that the reason I always felt so strong was because she was always there backing me up and taking care of me. Now that shes incapacitated, both mentally and physically, and I'm on my own, I am overwhelmed. The thing that I want more than anything, for her to be well again, is not something anyone can give me, and I'll be sad for the rest of my life about her loss of quality life, but I think that the feeling of security that I've always had from my parents first and then from my mother alone after my father died, IS something that someone can give me. As I said in my 'Headline', I'm an honest person; I absolutely need financial help, but I dont think I can be happy myself or make a man happy just to get money from him. I'd like to meet someone that I actually like and enjoy spending time with, either as a friend, or if there is a mutual attraction, in a romantic way, who WANTS to help me with my debt because he cares about me and likes me too, rather than in exchange for something. Not sure if there's room for my interests, but I love animals and am vegetarian, I like going out to eat, I like hockey, the ocean and lakes, the city occasionally...I try hard to keep up my sense of humor and laugh even at the awful things; my humor is sometimes a bit wry, other times silly crazy made up stuff...I'm not a fancy person who cares about expensive clothes or jewelry; I mostly wear jeans and t shirts and sneakers...I hope you'll message me and we can make each other happy, or at least happier than we are now.

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is  
5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are  
My Ethnicity Is  
My Marital Situation Is  
Never Married
I Have Kids  
I Want Kids  
My Best Feature Is  
Body Art  
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is  
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat, Bird, Other
Willing To Relocate  


My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
My Speciality Is  
My Job Title Is  
I Make This Much In A Year  
Under $100,000USD/yr
I Live  
With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
I Drink  


Back In High School, I Was A  
My Social Behavior Is  
Shy, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Sports, Reading, Music, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Photography
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
any situation where i could dress casually and have ample time to talk to the new guy and get to know him...
I've Always Wanted To Try  
My Friends Describe Me As Being  


My Religion Is  
I Attend Services  
My Political Views Are  
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is  
to make my Mama's life as quality as possible, and to get out of debt, keep my beloved house, and have a peaceful life
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy


On Tv, I Always Watch  
I Don't Like Tv
My Top 3 Tv Shows Are  
dont watch tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Comedy, Romance
My Top 3 Movies Are  
the pirate movies, the lost boys, american graffiti
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Country, Rock, Pop, Blues, Folk
My Top 3 Musical Artists Are  
gordon lightfoot, various others
When I Read, I Always Read  
My Top 3 Books Are  
a.a. milne, beatrix potter and k.m. peyton

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Money, Power, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
If we're to be friends, someone nice; if we're to be more than friends, someone nice and also fastidious about their personal hygiene...for romance, the man must be attractive to me; this doesnt mean he has to be attractive, just that he has to be attractive to ME - this isn't something I can describe; it's an intangible that either is or isn't, and is discovered when we meet, or sometimes not til subsequent meetings...
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Date