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bendi07 Profile Information

not your typical female
Age 63 From Durham, North Carolina - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Woman Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
love animals, married once, am widowed. I want to love again, and have not been happy alone. Think I am meant to be a partner...love my own company and am not needy, but do miss intelligent company of someone I have a spark for
Sign  
Cancer

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Slender
My Height Is  
5' 2 (1.57 m)
My Eyes Are  
Blue
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Widowed
I Have Kids  
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Legs
Body Art  
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is  
Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Work At Home
My Speciality Is  
Other
I Make This Much In A Year  
Under $100,000USD/yr
I Live  
Alone
At Home  
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
No

Personality

My Social Behavior Is  
Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Dancing, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering, Shopping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
anything as long as I adore who I am with..and get butterflies...
I've Always Wanted To Try  
want to help animals, people in need and this planet more...
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Spiritual But Not Religious
My Political Views Are  
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is  
be as happy as I once was, (widowed..starting over, etc) learn to do household things by myself..(bought first new house!!)hooking up new gadgets is a pain. Learn to manage without the support and love I always had..be ok not having it..and to better help those besides myself.."giving back"..not just words to me. Perhaps not my "sum total" but a good portion of who I am. To continue learning..being aware, tolorant, avoiding those actions which cause so many to end up in several failed relationships.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Friendly, Goofy

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Dance, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read  
News, Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Health, History, Home & Garden, Horror, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Satire, Science, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is  
love outdoors, all nature..wildlife/animals, hiking, at home doing "life's daily activities"..If I care about your company, I don't care what I am doing. As long as I am with someone I adore, I'll find the best in it..want partner who shares same philosophy. No controlling people, hard to have fun when you are being told what to do every second.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
First..I am attracted to slender, clean cut "youthful, energetic" people.(youthful..NOT YOUNG) NO hunters, or folks who can make it just fine without running water or small vocabulary. I like an urban lifestyle because I already have a country place..would like to change. Other than those things, I want the same things I offer. It takes skill to keep relationships going. It requires a choice. Many think they have it..but few do. I was happily married for 23 years..and can't say he let me down enough so I remember it..we made the choice to love and be together without getting angry all the time. I give more than those behaviors and I damn well expect more. You have each others back and you come first ..no matter what..and passion for something!!!No one dimentional people need stop by unless they want to learn how to have spirit..it is about degrees..1--10..a 2 isn't passion..if you can't feel passion and express it for anything else..how are you going have it for me?? it means taki
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Date, Committed
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