English, German

First thank you for taking the time to view my profile. I am an adventurous, spirited, loyal, selective, highly intelligent, and fun loving woman. I am Hawaiian, Chinese, and Puerto Rican decent. I was born and raised near a live volcano. My parents would take me to see the erupting volcano that lit up the night with vivid colors of reds and yellows. I grew up on the Big Island of Hawaii.I have travelled and lived in Pennsylvania, California, Hawaii, Massachusetts, and now Michigan. I have an uplifting personality, and love to make my friends laugh. I like to surround myself with positive, creative, and innovative thinkers who bring me joy and laughter.
I would like to share with you one of the events that changed my life. When I was 5 and 7 years old, I had a very traumatic and yet remarkable occurrences. I had two near death experiencesnes. I almost drowned twice. I was a child barely in kindergarten. So what I am about to say could have been a dream. I was drowning. Just before blacking out from the most excruciating, wrenching pain I ever felt in my life I saw what I could only describe as a vision I saw a dolphin on fire swimming towards me as it neared it shimmered into (okay your probably thinking sure lack of oxygen, seeing things..maybe my mind playing tricks ..but really) an angel? That event marked the beginning of my fear of overcoming obstacles, especially being near large. deep masses of water. I struggled with that fear for many years. At age 12, guess what? Yep..I conquered that obstacle, I swim like a fish! I love being in the ocean, lakes and rivers. When I am in tune with nature, I feel my spirit become replenished, I find that inner childlike wonder again, and I feel free again. My uncle used to call me sleeping seashell because I would crawl to the edge of the cliff and fall asleep to the sound of the singing crestfallen waves. I spend my time doing things that I enjoy. I like playing pool (still learning), jumping up and down in coed volleyball, playing euchre card games, hanging out with my friends, parasailing along the Kona coastline, listening to good live music with a fabulous singer, fishing and doing belly flops off the lakes, and stimulating conversations over coffee or wine. Whats precious to me is TIME. The longer I live, the more I realize how short it really is. My graduate friend and I were studying for an important exam. We were both tired, hungry and grouchy. It was so late. We got into a silly argument. After the exam, I recuperated and rested from lack of sleep and exhaustion. I kept putting off calling her to talk things out. She died that night. Now I will never be able to tell her how sorry I am. I will never be able to tell her how much I valued her wisdom and friendship. Lessons in life are so very painful, yet transforming. My family and friends are so precious to me. Time so priceless. I have lost all the Men in my life..my loving dad, my baby brother dying in my arms from AIDs, my tragic divorce. Losing those you cherish is one of the hardest changes I had to go through. These challenges and downfalls have transformed me and I think I am becoming a wiser, more intelligent, more evolving person. I live with passion, conscientious mindfulness, and a desire to make this earth a better place before I passed on by touching those I meet with humor and kindness. I have been on this dating site for several weeks in search for a kind, intelligent, educated, independent, generous man who is interested in someone exactly like me to brighten up his life and share this journey together. He has gone through difficult challenges and downfalls, yet he continues to strive through life by facing obstacles head on and is unafraid to explore new and different things. He is thoughtful, affectionate, adventurous, interested in a long term relationship. He likes to travel, cuddle, and knows how to kiss. His wealthy, but not pretentious, he has a special poignant elegance about him. If for any reason you feel a dawning inkling, some stirring excitement, a yearning tug on your Inner child, then do it...take a chance...stretch out your hand...reach out through this vast internet universe...make that connection..write to me..I might be shy at first until I feel I can trust and lean on you. Please no overbearing, craxy, and aggressive men. I am searching for someone who believed he could soar with majestic eagles, you who reached for the shining stars and suddenly find yourself among them. You ask me "Could you be the sweet someone I have been searching for?" I answer with all my inner strength, with all my courage, with all my spirit..."God I hope so!"

Pisces

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 4 (1.63 m)

Brown

Other

Divorced

No

Not Sure

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Black

Cat

No

University Degree

Self-employed

Medical / Health

tell you later

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Often

Yes - Trying To Quit

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Observant, Friendly, Fire Starter

Family, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Travel, Gardening, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert

Dinner, maybe a Movie, Listening to good live music with a great singer, late cocktails over fun conversations, kisses good night.

Traveling to different places with someone special, we experience new sights, sounds, taste new foods, passionate about exploring this earth together.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

Spiritual But Not Religious

Once A Year

Democrat

Helping to make this earth a better place before I passed on by touching those I meet with humor and kindness.

Clever, Friendly

News, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Adult

Rock, Pop, Blues, Soul

Auto-biography, Health, Home & Garden, Humor, Music, Mystery, Science Fiction

Dinner, maybe a movie, listening to good live with a terrific singer.

Power, Money, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

You are fearless, unafraid to face challenges along your path. You are Unique, Different from others. Your unentangled by financial burdens or marriage ties. Your open minded, selective, educated, intelligent, and kind hearted.Your not pretentious but have a special poignant elegance about you. You cherish family and friends. You enjoy being near the ocean, in a rain forest with mother nature and father sky. You have been through many challenges and each time you make it through, you've become wiser, stronger, more humane, more evolved person. You think as I do that we are here for only a minuscule of time, we are more like spiritual beings having a human experience. Your concern about what may happen in the future of America for the benefit of your children. Your really tender hearted towards me. When I embrace you, you realize that childlike wonder hasn't died but instead becomes reborn. Your life is filled with riches beyond many lifetimes, yet there is a yearning to share this journey with someone special. Please welcome me into your life. You might ask me "Could you be the someone I have been searching for?" I answer with all my strength, all my courage. all my soul...",God I hope so!"

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed